Growing up, it is not uncommon for many of your childhood friends to be the children of your parents' friends. The parents would get together for dinner and drinks and, inevitably, the kids would be thrown into the mix.
A couple of years ago, we had a holiday gathering with some of those long-time family friends. We were reminiscing on the many memories we shared, and the question arose from one of our parents, "What do you feel was the worst thing we did as parents?" The grown-up kids went around the room sharing what they felt was the biggest transgression they experienced. Looking around the room, jaws were agape, as the parents were not expecting the answer that was given.
So, we turned it around and put the burden on the parents; "What do you feel most guilty about as a parent?" Again, stories were told, and, much to their dismay, we had little no recollection of the things that haunted them.
With that in mind, you may want to ask your employees or boss similar questions. You just might be as surprised as we were with the answer you get.